Focusing on me

"Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Matthew 7:3

I'm thinking about this line in scripture and attempting to apply it to my life. I have spent over 13 years worrying about my husband. Why? Why? Why?

My husband once told me, "it is what it is." I can't spend my life starring into the speck in his eyes and ignore the log in my own. Instead, I'm working on answers to questions I CAN find answers to that concern my own behavior.

I know now the answers all lie within why I'm codependent.